I’m Susan Bratton, trusted Hot Sex advisor to millions, and this is one of a series of videos I did with John Gray, the famous author of ‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’ and this one video can only give you a quick hit of inspiration. In this, we talk about what women want in bed.
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[Susan] Women write to me all the time and pour out the most vivid details of their sex lives and ask me, “What do you think?”
But the one question I get more than anything from women all over the world is, “What do I have to do to get my guy to take control in the bedroom?”
I say to them, “Relax and let go and invite him to take the lead. Stop trying to wait for him to do it. Allow him to do it.” The woman, the feminine, is an open receptivity invitation. And I am a firm believer in training your man.
We’re training each other whether we do it implicitly or explicitly, right? So you might as well just proactively prepare your guy by letting him know what you’d like at the moment, and then allow him to figure out how to give that to you.
Offer a little course correction as he goes, and pretty soon, he’ll be running the bedroom game. You’ll have the confidence to do it. For me to switch off, I need to turn on the right music. Like when you’re making dinner, feel your body, and move around. Then you light your feminine essence lights up, and then your man can take charge.
[John] The sweetest memories I have of my wife is when she’s singing in the kitchen and moving her body. It’s a happy woman, and the man says, “I did that.” It’s straightforward, but context is essential for women.
The atmosphere and the color of the lighting… We look pretty by the candlelight. We’re more likely to take off our clothes in dark and orange light. What kind of music is playing? What’s the temperature? We’re sensitive to temperature. We have a specific temperature we like. What’s the lube? Are the sheets scratchy? Are they clean? Will the kids bother us? Is the door locked? Is this the music that’s turning me on today? Set that lover space… Half the game plan for a guy is creating the environment for her surrender. It’s not just about giving her an orgasm.
She’ll have the orgasm if the environment is right. It’s real estate. It’s location, location, location.
[Susan] So true, John.
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