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Are you ready to make your intimate life more exciting and adventurous? I had an electrifying conversation with fitness expert Drew Manning, where we dove headfirst into a topic often brushed under the carpet—sexual health and pleasure.
Discover the role of sex toys in relationships and shatter the misconceptions and outdated stigmas. After this, you may even become a believer in the potential of sex toys yourself.
We also talked about the importance of sexual intimacy and how embracing sex toys can enhance this aspect of your relationship and significantly elevate your pleasure experience.
There’s more! We introduced the concept of ‘orgasmic cross training’—this encourages you to explore different methods for pleasure, such as sex toys, to potentially heighten pleasure, invigorate intimate relationships, and break the monotony, leading to a more fulfilling sexual life. You’ll also hear about specific sex toys from my favorite sex toy companies; Hot Octopus, Fun Factory, and MysteryVibe. Know their features, usage, and the unique pleasure points they target for both men and women.
If you’ve ever been uncertain about what sex toy might suit you best, our conversation is a treasure trove of guidance. And guess what? There are even discounts available on Drew’s website!
So, why not give it a watch? Absorb our discussion, challenge societal norms, and potentially transform your intimate experiences. This isn’t about being audacious; it’s about curiosity and openness. Watch it today!
Full Transcript
Drew: What’s up everyone? Drew Manning here from Fit2Fat2fit with my good friend Susan. Susan, how are you?
Susan: I am good, Drew.
Drew: Uh, awesome. That’s good. Really,
Susan: I am thinking about how appreciative I am about how brave you are to do this segment with me.
Drew: Well, I mean, I don’t think it’s, I’m like, it’s that it requires that much bravery. I think it just requires being open and, you know, transparent and, you know, I think this is important stuff. I really do.
Susan: I know you do.
Drew: Yeah, so I’m really excited for today’s segment. Because these things don’t look like sex toys, but they are sex toys. Right?
Susan: Yeah.
Drew: And so, uh, let’s talk about couple sex toys, because I have zero education on any of what any of this is right here. But I’m interested.
Susan: Yeah. Good.
Drew: I’m sure people are.
Susan: Yeah. It, it’s so fun. I mean, toys are really interesting no matter what. And sex tech is going like bonkers right now. There’s so much creativity.
Drew: Mm-hmm.
Susan: Um, a couple of things. One, um, over the last two decades that I’ve been a intimacy expert, one of the things that I’ve done is a lot of primary research, research to my fans and followers. I’ve been lucky to have a lot of followers and they are, and they love to take my surveys and when I ask couples to rank themselves okay at what they’re the best at in the bedroom and what they’re the worst at,
Drew: mm-hmm
Susan: They always rank themselves really low. Like it’s one of their worst things using toys during partnered pleasuring.
Drew: Mm. Okay.
Susan: And it’s, I think it’s just a vestige of, well, if, you know, we, we should be able to do everything with our fingers and our tongues and our genitals.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And that should be good enough. And I just think that is such outdated thinking because I mean, How did you brush your teeth this morning? Do you use a electric toothbrush or a irrigator? Yeah.
Drew: Vibrating toothbrush.
Susan: Exactly.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Like why are we doing it to our teeth but not enjoying the pleasure
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: That we can get from them. And so a lot of times with couples, one of the things that I say is start with the easiest thing that you can incorporate into couples pleasure.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And that is these penis rings?
Drew: Mm oh, okay.
Susan: And penis rings. I’ve brought you three different penis rings to show you in my show and tell cuz you know me. I am a shower and teller.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And these are my three favorite penis rings for couples and they each have different reasons why you’d pick them.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: So I’ll run through what they are. And the reason I like these is that they naturally work with intercourse.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And couples enjoy, mostly enjoy having intercourse as a part of what they do. And I’m a big proponent of having orgasmic intercourse.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And one of the things I wanna say is that, orgasmic intercourse for her is a learned skill. It’s very easy for him, but it takes women.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Understanding that. A lot of women say, well, I’m just not the kind of woman who can, and I’m like, no, mama. Yeah, no. Trust me, you are the kind of woman who can have orgasms from intercourse. I promise.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: All I need to do is tell you how to do it, which I do literally for free for people. I don’t even, it’s not like I teach people for money for that. I just like, yeah, here’s how you do it. Because when a woman thinks she can’t, this is right up your alley.
Drew: Mm-hmm.
Susan: Limiting beliefs.
Drew: Yeah. Limiting beliefs.
Susan: When she thinks she can’t, she doesn’t. And then he thinks, well, I guess she can’t, and they stop crying, trying.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And they start crying.
Drew: Yeah. And they start crying. There you go.
Susan: So, uh, throw it in the penis ring is a great way to do what I like to call orgasmic cross training.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: Which is, Like any cross training, when you do something, you do very well and then you add in another move with it, then you get better at the second thing.
Drew: Mm.
Susan: So you use what’s working and you get better. And so a lot of people say, well, isn’t it cheating? If I use a toy to have an orgasm during intercourse and I’m like, uh, no. It’s called incrementing your pleasure.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Let’s take as much pleasure in life as we possibly can in as many ways as are available to us, and these are so available to us.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: So these are some of the things I wanted to talk about and kind of clear the air. Will it make me dependent on it? No.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: It actually enhances your orgasmic capacity so that it actually makes it easier to have orgasms without using toys as well.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: So it helps you learn how to have orgasms and it helps you when you don’t have it.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: So there’s like no reason anyone can come up within the world for me, except I can’t afford it, which is legitimate. And I understand that toys, especially the toys that I recommend.
Drew: Mm-hmm.
Susan: Cause I only recommend super high quality companies who stand by their products and take care of their customers.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: So I have three different companies here. And these are my favorite brands. This is a product that is, it’s called The Pulse Luxe, and it’s from a company called Hot Octopus. I have this, it’s called the NŌS from Fun Factory.
Drew: NŌS?
Susan: NŌS. N O S. And this is, this is an amazing contraption. This is an incredible product, and it’s from, it’s called Tenuto, from MysteryVibe. And I’m gonna have links on MoreDrew.com to all of these because I’ve arranged for your fans to get a discount from those companies. Mm-hmm. So that, you know.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: It’s likes you, you know, use Drew’s link.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: You’ll get a discount. So let’s just start with why you would use these three.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: So this is a double vibrating penis ring, and it’s quite stretchy. So you can, you can get it on.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And you actually put both. It goes this way. You put your penis and your testicles in it.
Drew: Oh, wow.
Susan: Yeah. And so you start flacid.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And then this is the vibrator for you. This is the perineal vibrator for his pleasure. And this is the clitoral vibrator for her pleasure.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: So while you’re having intercourse, she’s getting this pleasure and you are getting this pleasure. Super fun. Let me turn it on for you and you can feel all of the. Oops, I turned it up. There you go. And then it has many speeds. You can adjust both the top and the bottom vibrator. So she wants it all the way up and he wants it all the way down, or vice versa.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Um, that works really well.
Drew: That is crazy.
Susan: Not only that, but it has a remote control.
Drew: Oh, it does.
Susan: So once you get it on, you don’t have to be down there, fumbling around, uh, you know.
Drew: And it doesn’t move around or anything? Like once it’s ons, you keep it on.
Susan: It stays.
Drew: And then, yeah. Okay.
Susan: Yeah it stays.
Drew: And for pleasure for him and for her. That’s what I was wondering is like, is it just for him or is it more for her, or Its sounds like it’s for both.
Susan: Both!
Drew: Okay.
Susan: Yeah. And what’s interesting about it too is that,
Drew: That’s crazy.
Susan: Men are more and more interested in blended orgasms, P Spot orgasms, which is your prostate perineal.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And penile pleasure orgasms. So, um.
Drew: I’ll let you turn it off. I don’t know what I’m doing. I have no idea.
Susan: Just click around until it stops. It’s my motto.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: You just hold it and it stops. It’s pretty easy.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: And this is nice because you have remote control.
Drew: Oh, cool.
Susan: So to like, like she could put it, you could put it on and she could turn it up slowly on you.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: Or you could turn it up slowly on her so you can play with it a little bit.
Drew: Cool.
Susan: So that’s fun. And one of the things that I do like about the, um, Plux LUX, Atom Plus LUX, is that for guys that are starting to have sensation loss.
Drew: Mm.
Susan: This helps them kind of get over the hump.
Drew: Mm.
Susan: And get even more pleasure.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: So any guy that’s. So if a guy is like, oh, don’t put that on me I can’t last long enough. This is not the product for the guy that cast can’t last long enough. Cuz he’d be like, that’s way too fun. Right.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: So what I have for that guy is I really need to last longer and I don’t need something to stimulate me, but I wanna stimulate my partner.
Okay, cool. And that’s this. And this is the NŌS from Fun factory, also nice and big. Fits most men.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Very large men. Which of course I have a following of men with very large penises because of the penis pumping.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And so I would not recommend this for them. It’s not gonna be quite big enough for a really big girthy guy, but for pretty much up to almost large, all the way down to quite small.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: But not tiny. Tiny.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Is this is a wide ranging fit, so that’s nice.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And it has this sculptural element. That does not compress the corpus spongiosum in your penis so that it feels good.
Drew: Oh, okay.
Susan: And it’s sculpted really nicely and it will keep you firmer.
Drew: Okay, cool.
Susan: So what’s nice is for a lot of guys, they, they, they’re losing their firmness. So they have to go get their, they got a pump, they gotta get their GAINESWave, they gotta get their P Shots and things like that. This helps trap the blood in because the most common kind of issue for men is this veinous leak.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Where they can get hard, but they can’t stay hard, it flows back out.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: So, using a penis ring is a really good thing for those guys.
Drew: Gotcha. Okay.
Susan: What I love about this, you were, you were goofing about this earlier before we started. Drew was like, where does this go?
Drew: It does start with the N O S. It sounds like nose, but NŌS. So that one your nose maybe. That’s pretty cool.
Susan: This is kind of like a rabbit-y type thing where the little bunny ears.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: Tickle the clitoral shaft and tip.
Drew: Oh, gotcha.
Susan: So this is really, uh, and one of the things I also like about the NŌS, and I’d say it’s probably the, my top selling penis ring for couples.
Drew: Really?
Susan: Um, is that, Yeah, you just press, uh, that makes it go higher and higher. It has five speeds and, uh, I think three. Um, Patterns.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: That’s where the charger goes. That’s what those little things are. Oh, that’s the, it just snaps right on. It’s got a beautiful charger. These are German designed and they’re very nice and, uh, they’re kind of like the BMW or the Porsche, you know?
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: Uh, smooth. But what I also like about this is that you don’t necessarily have to wear it. She can slip this down between you while, while you’re making love and it’s super low profile.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: But it packs a good vibe.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: So she can stimulate herself with that.
Drew: Is this a bit more affordable than that one?
Susan: There? It it is, yeah.
Drew: Okay. Yeah.
Susan: It’s, it’s not, it’s not that expensive.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: Yeah. And if you just hold, it’ll turn off. There you go.
Drew: Got it. I figured out. I’m learning.
Susan: I know, you are. And this one’s the third one. It looks like quite a thing.
Drew: Yes.
Susan: But this one is fantastic for men who have intractable erectile dysfunction. Like E.D. You can’t fix, oh, like all the gains waves in the world ain. Go and fix it type of thing. And not necessarily just that, but for men who are going through the process of using rejuvenation treatments like GAINSWave and P Shots, et cetera. This is the tenuto for MysteryVibe. And what’s interesting about it is that it has, uh, so this goes underneath for him. He puts his penis here and his testicles here, so this is up behind him.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: His penis is here. This is her vibrator. This is his vibrator.
Drew: Oh.
Susan: And what this does is it really holds the blood in his penis really nicely. So if he has sensation loss, veinous leak, he’s not as firm as he wants to. He’s in the middle of doing all his penile rejuvenation and biohacking and all that stuff. This is a toy for him.
Drew: Wow.
Susan: Plus, plus. This is the nerdy dude’s toy.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: Because it has a Bluetooth app.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: And you can literally program it like a maestro.
Drew: Oh really?
Susan: You can make it, you can, almost like you were creating a musical score.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: You can have it. You can program it to have all kinds of patterns.
Drew: Mm-hmm.
Susan: And you can actually put this on with your partner, your partner can take you inside her, and you guys can ride the experience that you created with all sorts of vibrations and patterns.
Drew: Oh wow.
Susan: It’s, and you’re gonna stay hard because it’s holding the blood in your penis.
Drew: Wow.
Susan: So, One of the things that I love to talk about are, I think I’ve mentioned it before, erotic adventures.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: The idea that couples that play together stay together, especially in the bedroom.
Drew: Mm-hmm.
Susan: And that there’s no reason not to have intercourse if you have a problem getting hard because you’ve got the Tenuto. . So you can still have intercourse, intimacy when you have a tool like this. Not only that, but you can have super fun times with that thing because it has in incredible patterns and vibrations.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: This thing, this Tenuto it is like a, uh, an instrument of love.
Drew: Yeah. An instrument.
Susan: Yes.
Drew: It’s creating a, a masterpiece.
Susan: Yeah, exactly.
Drew: This is crazy. It’s amazing.
Susan: It can be used for solo pleasure as well. Of course. As can all of these, all of these can be used for solo pleasure.
Drew: Wow.
Susan: Yeah.
Drew: That is, this is amazing. That’s, I know, blows my mind what we have available these days.
Susan: But things are getting so much better.
Drew: Yeah. Okay. So there’s three different options for people. Yeah. And, uh, what would you say is the most common one that people, um, You know, purchase or use or you think all three are good just to kind of mix and match. And then the other thing is, do you need this all the time? Like, does a guy need to have this all the time or is this more to mix it up every once in a while? You know.
Susan: I think it’s good to mix it up.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: I mean, there might be some couples who really need to have a penis ring the, the whole time.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And if they’re not pursuing remediation of all the things we talked about, like the GAINSWave, et cetera, then um, you know, I encourage people to not just deal with, not just live with problems, but go fix them.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: Um, but there are so many wonderful toys that there are out there that I think encouraging couples to at least try something
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: That they can add to what they’re already doing is the first, is the slippery slope.
Drew: Mm.
Susan: To a pleasure chest brimming over with toys because that’s what happens. Then you’re like, okay. So we kind of like popped our cherry. Now we now we’re using a toy. What other toys should we have? And one of the things that I often talk about with women is the notion of orgasmic cross-training to help them become very massively multiorgasmic by using the seven different types of toys and just trying them all and awakening all new neural pathways using different types of vibrators.
Drew: Gotcha.
Susan: Yeah. So this, you can just keep going with this stuff and keep exp… it’s just the same as anything else.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: It’s all learned skills. It’s all being willing to try. That’s where the fun is in the erotic play dates.
Drew: Yeah.
Susan: And there’s always more toys.
Drew: Can this be used with the, the Daoist thrusting technique that you mentioned in the other segment? Like is this something that can even enhance that?
Susan: Oh, for sure.
Drew: Okay.
Susan: Yeah.
Drew: Uhhuh cool. Yeah. So many options.
Susan: I know.
Drew: Who knew? Who would’ve thought.
Susan: I know.
Drew: Well, I’m glad you’re here educating all of us.
Susan: Thank you.
Drew: And I think this is really important for, for a lot of people to have to know that there are options out there and, uh, it’s cool there’s different levels of this.
So yeah, go check it out at MoreDrew.com and, uh, we got more coming for you soon, so stay tuned.
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