It’s me again, Susan Bratton, trusted hot sex advisor to millions and this is The Future of Sex Series. Hopefully, you’ve watched the previous 6 videos… they are only about 2-3 minutes each… and you’ve gotten the basics of sexual energy and started to experiment and feel it for yourself.
Now, before we get into these advanced practices, I am obliged to tell you that these techniques will accelerate your growth on many fronts. You are going to become, not just a better lover, but a person with a very high sexual IQ who has the ability to continually expand your orgasmic capacity and take your lover right along with you.
This is for real and you will be surprised at how quickly you can open yourself to more pleasure by circulating the feeling of arousal throughout your body, looking into your lover’s eyes and connecting at the soul level.
We’ve talked about this and other basics of building sexual energy such as leveraging fantasy, breathing together, feeling each other, touching with your heart, using the tuning fork technique and, of course, doing all of these activities in the spirit of play and discovery.
Once the sexual energy starts to reveal itself, you are ready to go to the next level and experiment with more advanced practices. One of my mentors, Dr. Patti Taylor, taught my husband and I how to build sexual energy and deepen our connection with simple techniques that eventually lead to expanded orgasms.
Expanded Orgasms are stacked, multiple orgasms that get longer and more intense as your arousal peaks.
These are stroking techniques that are done on her clitoris or his penis without over-stimulating these ultra-sensitive areas so the receiver can come and come and come. It’s true, even men can have multiple, non-ejaculatory, energy orgasms!
The couple’s practice I am about to describe requires the two of you to focus on one person’s orgasm at a time.
If she’s the receiver, you’re stroking her clitoris, and both of you become ONE with her orgasm.
If you’re the one doing the stroking, she remains focused on the sensation you’re delivering, rather than wondering how you’re doing.
Meanwhile, your focus is right there, in the moment, tracking her arousal so your next stroke will be so tuned in to her sensation, it will feel even better.
With the Expanded Orgasm practice, you use a series of clitoral strokes to link orgasms together and stack them into increasing peaks of pleasure.
One of the most basic of these stroke techniques is called an intentional down-stroke. You use your sexual energy to calm your partner’s arousall so she doesn’t climax too fast. You’re stretching the moment of climax out — expanding it — a little like pulling taffy.
Just as in physics, what goes up must come down. If you drive a woman up too fast with sexual energy, she can tire out. But if you bring her up, give her a little break in the stimulation, then take her up again, you can stair-step her nervous system so each orgasm feels better than the next.
Experienced “strokers” (those who are experienced at Expanded Orgasm stroking techniques) look like they’re doing the same simple stroke over and over — but what they’re really doing is alternating between sending more energy through their fingertips and sending less energy through their fingertips.
Women who have an Expanded Orgasm practice become very tuned in to the sexual energy they can circulate with a partner while they are doing this stroking technique.
In our popular “Expand Her Orgasm Tonight” program, Dr. Patti shares 21 Erotic Play dates that the teach couples how to spiral their subtle energy up through the body in a double-helix. {Double Helix}
With practice, you can extend her climax and string multiple orgasms together so she come for an hour or more. It’s a truly amazing experience for both of you that will light up your relationship with a sense of connection that is breathtaking.
In the next video in this series, we’ll take this one step further and talk about orgasmic meditation.
This is The Future of Sex.
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