Susan explains that all women can experience female ejaculation, which is the expulsion of fluid from the urethra during orgasm. This fluid is sometimes called “Amrita” in Tantra. To facilitate female ejaculation, she recommends giving a yoni (vagina) massage to make the mons pubis area gelatinous, allowing the fluids to flow out. Susan states that achieving female ejaculation is a learned skill involving specific massage techniques to induce the fluid release, similar to how men ejaculate. With proper massage, any woman can experience the “liquid bliss” of ejaculating her feminine nectar or “squirting” as it’s commonly called.
Jay: [00:00:00] Yeah. And do you have a resource of a video or something for the yoni massage?
Susan: Yes. At betterlover.com. I have a whole series of videos about how to give really good yoni massages step by step, and what parts like different types of touch. Like one of the things that a lot of people are perennially interested in is female ejaculation.
Jay: Yeah
Susan: And all women can ejaculate. You know how you ejaculate and urinate out of your penis, you do both of those things. We have that same tube, it just stops at our vestibule, but our urine and our ejaculate flows out of that too.
It’s exactly the same. There’s a little sphincter muscle up by the bladder that pop, that will close off the bladder so that you don’t, you pee when you’re coming.
Jay: Right.
Susan: We both have that. And so a lot of couples really want to experience what I call the liquid bliss of female ejaculation. It’s a very nice feeling for a woman and for many men that’s really a turn on for them And if you don’t have [00:01:00] fluidity of the tissue of the mons over the pubic hair, like basically where all the pubic hair is on a woman’s vulva All of that tissue needs to be like, almost like gelatinous.
You just get it like really gelatinous. Then everything can flow down and then she can kind of have those releases of her feminine nectar.
Jay: So are we talking about squirting?
Susan: Yes.
Jay: Okay.
Susan: That’s just the porn term.
Jay: Right. Okay.
Susan: It’s not as honorable as things like, you know, maybe female ejaculation sounds a little more medical.
But Amrita is the word that the Tantra masters use for the feminine fluid.
Jay: Okay. And anyone can do this?
Susan: Everyone can do it.
Jay: So it’s a learned skill, just like you said.
Susan: Everything in sex is a learned skill.