The journey to a more fulfilling partnership often begins with a willingness to explore the unknown. When we started diving into deeper practices for connection back in 2005, it felt like discovering a hidden source of vitality within our relationship. By focusing on presence and consistency, we learned how to unlock layers of growth and release that we never knew existed. It wasn’t just about the physical experience; it was about the profound renewal and maturation that comes when you hold space for one another. This shift from a routine approach to one of steady, intentional focus changed everything for us. Exploring these paths of expansion can truly transform the way you and your partner experience closeness and joy.
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[00:00:00]Tim: starting in about 2005 and we started doing the workshops and learning all these incredible things that it’s almost like magic and it was mostly around Susan’s orgasm. Mine didn’t really change.
[00:00:13]Tim: Mine was kind of like, oh, it’s the same. And it was just all of a sudden she now had like, it’s like we found some like secret source within her that just like exploded her turn on.
[00:00:28]Susan: Oof.
[00:00:28]Tim: And it was the expanded orgasm practice where, you know, I’m essentially rubbing her clitoris and then I’m just resting inside her and Tritus and giving her that massage.
[00:00:40]Tim: But you learn how to do it in a way that it gets her to the point where she’s starting to have an orgasm instead of just taking her over and giving her an orgasm, which is what I had been doing, you know, before that you learn to hold her there. Hold her there and hold her there. And then when her body kind of [00:01:00] catches up, you can take her up even more.
[00:01:02]Tim: And then it’s like stair steps and you go up into a landing and give her a little break and then keep going up even more. And then you do it again and keep going up even more. And you know, we got to the point where like within a year or two, Susan was having like continuous, like taking taffy and kind of stretching it out.
[00:01:22]Tim: Mm-hmm. Like a continuous orgasm that would last for five minutes and then 10 minutes, and then 20 minutes and then like 30 minutes. She’s having continuous. Like screaming orgasms for 30 minutes at a time.
[00:01:35]Susan: Yeah. We were like, how long can I come? And we’d clock out around an hour because we just got, I just got tired.
[00:01:43]Susan: You also did a lot of, g-spot you did all that G spot de-armoring. Oh. Uh, to get through my trauma. He did a lot of G-spot de-armoring and then G-spot pleasuring. And then we, and then I heard about female ejaculation and I was like, let’s do that.
[00:01:58]Susan: And so then I started [00:02:00] ejaculating and there was massive release in that. Um, and it was interesting because in the early times of, of that G-spot activation. I can remember, I would make the craziest sounds.
[00:02:14]Tim: You were going through a lot of releasing pro like layers and things like that.
[00:02:19]Susan: All that wounding that was held in my enteric nervous system.
[00:02:23]Susan: He just was so, you know, he’s steady, he’s just steady. He delivers consistent pleasure. And so I could, I had freedom of expression by then to just let out these crazy witchy cackles and sometimes it sounded like chickens and roosters and sometimes it sounded like a train ran through the bedroom.
[00:02:48]Susan: And, you know, I would, I would go like, you know, it was crazy shit. But it was fascinating for us. I mean, we just found, wow, there [00:03:00] is so much growth, release, renewal, maturation, in these sexual expansion practices. And that was a very exciting time for us. So we had all this like, massive level of excitement and pleasure that we were holding.
