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Quantified Intimacy: 6 New Sexual Biohacking Tools 

I am so incredibly excited! For the first time ever, I’m presenting my formal concept of Quantified Intimacy. We finally have the sophisticated tech to help you achieve your full orgasmic potential while extending your “sex span.” At 64, I’m having the best sex of my life because I treat my sexual health like a […]

These Two Toys Improved My Vaginal Orgasms! 

I try products constantly, and I have tested hundreds upon hundreds of toys over the years, but I have been so deeply moved by these that I just had to tell you about them in this video. If you have been searching for a way to achieve true orgasmic pleasuring, then you need to meet […]

How Lusty Lovers Jack Their Desire

You know that difference between just thinking about sex and actually feeling the blood start to thrum in your pelvic bowl? That is the magic of arousal, and if you haven’t felt it lately, I’m here to tell you that your body hasn’t forgotten how. Your body just needs the right invitation. Many people ask […]

Top 3 Aphrodisiacs To Cycle For More Lusty Pleasure

Are you feeling that delicious, tingly spark that makes life feel truly vibrant? Or is it a thing from your past? If you’ve been feeling a little disconnected from your “turn-on,” I want you to know right now: nothing is wrong with you! Sometimes, your biology just needs a little bit of high-level biohacking to […]

THC, CBD, And Terpenes For Erotic Playdates

Imagine we’re slowing down the clock, just you and your lover, shedding the stress of the day to step into a realm of pure, embodied sensation where every touch feels electric and every breath is shared… In this video, get to know the Lusty Bundle, which I’ve curated with the artisans at NUUD to help […]

How to Boost Oxytocin Naturally

The Secret to Boosting Your “Connection Hormone” Naturally Did you know that the secret to feeling more connected, calm, and vibrant might actually start in your gut? I am obsessed with oxytocin because it truly is a master signaling hormone that helps us manage stress and feel closer to the people we love. To keep […]

Living Under This Cultural Miasma Of Expectation

Are you living under a “miasma” of expectations? Many couples fall into the habit of lying to themselves because they are trying to follow a cultural script of how they should behave. Real breakthroughs happen when you stop projecting your own desires onto your partner and start seeking true clarity instead. It isn’t just about […]

Radical Honesty

Why “Acting Right” Might Be Hurting Your Relationship Have you ever found yourself walking on eggshells or stuffing your feelings just to keep the peace? We are often taught to prioritize cultural manners over our own truth, but “acting right” can actually create distance between you and your partner. Embracing a practice of radical honesty […]

Expanded Orgasm Date With My Husband

The Art of Mastering Connection Becoming truly skilled at fostering deep connection requires more than just time; it requires a commitment to presence and a willingness to learn. Many people believe that once they’ve found a rhythm in their partnership, there’s nothing new to discover, but every individual brings a unique energy to a relationship. […]

My Number One Job Was Permission

My Number One Job Was Permission People often feel locked into societal norms, afraid to step outside the box and truly explore who they are. I realized about a decade into my career that my primary role isn’t just teaching, but granting permission. It is about giving people the space to feel more and refusing […]

Sexual Expansion Practices

Discovering A New Level Of Connection The journey to a more fulfilling partnership often begins with a willingness to explore the unknown. When we started diving into deeper practices for connection back in 2005, it felt like discovering a hidden source of vitality within our relationship. By focusing on presence and consistency, we learned how […]