What is Relationship Anarchy—And Could It Transform Your Love Life?
In this episode of Polyamorous Evolutions, relationship coach Roy Graff joins intimacy expert Susan Bratton for a candid, mind-expanding conversation on Relationship Anarchy—what it really means, how it differs from other non-monogamous frameworks, and why it might just be the freedom your relationships need.
Roy breaks down the misconceptions, core values, and real-world challenges of navigating love outside the traditional rulebook—offering you clarity, compassion, and a whole lot of “aha” moments.
What You’ll Learn:
The real definition of Relationship Anarchy (it’s not chaos!)
Why autonomy and consent matter more than rules
How to rethink relationship hierarchies
Navigating jealousy and emotional safety without ownership
The difference between loving freely vs. loving irresponsibly
How to create intentional and fluid connections
Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro: What is Relationship Anarchy?
03:35 – Roy’s personal journey into polyamory
07:20 – Key principles of RA: freedom, fluidity, and boundaries
13:45 – How RA differs from hierarchical polyamory
19:10 – Communication without control: real-life examples
24:55 – Rewriting the “relationship escalator” narrative
29:00 – How to start practicing RA with care
35:40 – Closing insights and guidance for curious explorers
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Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro: What is Relationship Anarchy?
