How To Choose A Sex Toy

I’m Susan Bratton, your trusted hot sex adviser to millions, and I get asked all the time what vibrators or sex toys to get, and I thought it would be helpful to give you a decision tree on how to choose a sex toy.

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HOW TO CHOOSE A SEX TOY

I’m Susan Bratton, your trusted hot sex adviser to millions. I get asked all the time what sex toys and vibrators should I get, and I thought it would be helpful to give you a decision tree about how to choose a sex toy.

The first thing is you don’t want to buy a novelty item off Amazon. You want to buy a high-quality body-safe sex toy from a reputable manufacturer. I’ll show you some of the brands and toys I recommend.

SOLO OR COUPLES

Think about if the toy for solo pleasure or couples? Think of a toy for a particular body part, such as a clitoral, vaginal, prostate, or anal stimulator. Am I a penis or vulva owner? Do I want to have something for a particular part? Am I doing it for solo plays or couple play? 

I have other videos so you can get a deeper dive into specific areas. Let’s say that you want a vibrator because that’s the most common thing people want. You can get the Magic Wand, which is a real workhorse with very high-intensity vibration. The Womanizer is a clitoral stimulator that doesn’t use vibration but air. You could get a multi-programmable, multifunctional bendable type of vibrator that wraps around his penis. It can go into your vagina and wrap around your clitoris, and it has multiple motors. 

THE MYSTERY VIBE

This is the Mystery Vibe Crescendo, suitable for masturbatory aficionados. It uses Bluetooth, and you can program it. You might want to think about g-spot toys. Some g-spot toys I like are the nJoy Pure Wand. I’ve got a whole video series on g-spot toys with a guide with links in it. This is a nice glass one, super easy to clean up and weighty, and it gives you that g-spot pressure. 

This is for the prostate. So you can also use it as a prostate toy. The prostate likes pressure more than motion, similar to a g-spot. You could look at anal toys such as this great plug, the B-Ball from Fun Factory. There’s a single and double version. You could both wear them when you make love and have an enjoyable time. 

You could look at something that traps blood into the penis like this. This is the booty product from Fun Factory with both prostate stimulation and a cock ring that helps him maintain his erection and gives him orgasms. 

B SWISH AND SHAREVIBE

Another vibrating g-spot toy is this B Swish. It’s a lovely, low-cost product. It is nice because you don’t have to spend a fortune to get a high-quality g-spot massager. You could look at something straightforward, like a strap-on with a dildo. This is a little dolphin made out of silicone I cast myself at the Fun Factory when I visited them in Germany. So you could get all kinds of dildos and strap-ons, or you could get the Share Vibe from Fun Factory. This is a gorgeous product that goes into the vagina. The other end goes in someone else’s vagina or someone’s rectum, and it has a vibration so that you can turn the vibrator on as well. I will also talk about great clitoral stimulators such as the Volta and Lady Bi and choosing a vibrator. 

THE DIGIT

The Hot Octopus Digit is a nice small high-intensity travel vibrator. I like it for that, and it gets between the two of you while you’re making love so you can do clitoral stimulation. Then we’ve got some stuff just for the dudes. This one is a penis vibrator. 

This is the Manta from Fun Factory. We’ve got a solo pleasuring prostate stimulator from the Fun Factory named Duke, and we have two products from Hot Octopus. 

THE ATOM AND PULSE

This is the Atom and the Pulse. This one is great if you have problems maintaining an erection. You can still make love with your partner, where you’re both getting stimulated. It traps the blood in the penis and gives them a vibrator for the perineum and clitoris. You’ve got this notion of couples toys that you can enjoy pleasuring together. There’s the couple e-type things or ones where you can sneak it in while you’re having an orgasm and making love. 

COUPLES THAT PLAY TOGETHER

There are just the straight-up self-pleasuring vibrators for women. There’s the highly programmable and flexible next-generation stuff like Mystery Vibe. When someone asks me how to choose a sex toy, you have to go through that decision tree. But there’s a pleasure chest of sex toys, and you should have as many different kinds because couples that play together stay together, especially in the bedroom. 

The more novelty and variety you bring into your sex life, the more fun you have, the less sex becomes a chore, and the more it becomes a joy. So there that’s some great advice from your trusted hot sex advisor to millions on how to choose a sex toy. I’ll see you on the other side, and I’d love for you to comment below. Please tell me which toys you want me to talk about. I want to hear from you. I love your comments, and I appreciate you. I’m Susan Bratton, a trusted hot sex adviser to millions! Bang! Pow!