Expanded Orgasm Date With My Husband

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[00:00:00] Susan: and here’s the thing about Tim too, because. I love, hi. I pimp him out. I ha I bring women to him and say, you should have an experience with my husband. You should have an expanded orgasm date with my husband. It’s totally STI safe. It’s hands on genitals.

[00:00:17] Susan: There’s no mouth to genital or genital to genital contact. And so it’s like the safest, most intimate, heart connected experience that you can do.

[00:00:28] Speaker 6: And 

[00:00:29] Susan: so I, and, and it’s hard for him to kind of, you know, people be like, I don’t wanna piss Susan off.

[00:00:36] Susan: Definitely, 

[00:00:37] Tim: definitely didn’t wanna make Susan mad, 

[00:00:40] Susan: especially now, you know, she’s a rager. But when I bring him women, like, please enjoy my husband. He’s incredible. He can give every woman incredible pleasure, not just me. Like he knows what he’s. Doing, and [00:01:00] it is a doing practice deliberate orgasm. DO. And so maybe talk a little bit about kind of your approach to the feminine body when you do these things.

[00:01:10] Tim: I think it all started, when we started with the, the orgasmic practice. Yeah. Expanded orgasms and, happened to meet one of the guys who essentially invented it probably in the seventies. And when we met him, it was like 30 years after he and, uh, Victor Barranco, I think the two guys. So his, this was Ray Veder 

[00:01:36] Susan: line.

[00:01:36] Susan: Mm-hmm. 

[00:01:36] Tim: I never met Victor, but I, I met, he was 

[00:01:38] Susan: passed by the time we got into the 

[00:01:39] Tim: practice. But I met Ray, when I met Ray, he was 82 years old. Living in Novato. And he had two wives. Um, they were sisters, by the way, so I guess technically they really were sister wives. I don’t know which one was like his actual wife and, but I don’t know Diane.

[00:01:57] Tim: It was Diane. Okay. Uh, [00:02:00] he, he was 82 years old and women would come from all over the world, the world to have, uh, this, you know, expanded orgasm date with him, the due date with him. And when they did, they would bring a pie, like that was the offering. They would bring a pie and give it to the wives, and then the woman would go off in the bedroom and they’d have a nest set up and he would give her this, you know, this, it’s essentially like a pussy massage.

[00:02:26] Tim: You could just use the shorthand that it’s pussy massage.

[00:02:29] Tim: And, you know, I asked him like, you know, Ray, like, how, how, what, how did you get to be so good? And women would say like, it was, you know, the best experience of my life and.

[00:02:40] Tim: He said, well, you know, I didn’t really get good until I’d done 300 women do, like, do, doing, done kind of the language that they would use. Like, until I’d done 300 women and I go, wow, Ray, I wanna be like you. And he didn’t go into what actually he’d gotten to, but it gave me the goal of, [00:03:00] you know, you won’t be, you won’t be good until you’ve had three, 300 women you’ve done due dates with.

[00:03:04] Tim: But it’s, it is a little different. It’s not just the hours ’cause every single woman is different. Yeah.

[00:03:12] Tim: So I mean, Susan and I probably have at this point, 

[00:03:15] Susan: well let’s just say we’ve got our 10,000 hours on, 

[00:03:18] Tim: but you know, every woman is different.

[00:03:22] Tim: So it’s kind of like golfing where you have, you know, you like different, different golf clubs and you have your different techniques and things like that. Essentially when I’m with a new woman and I don’t know what is gonna work at all, and they’re all different. I just start trying stuff. But it is kind of like, you’re, like, you’re playing golf, but you’re blindfolded, you know? Because you don’t know. 

[00:03:49] Susan: You’re literally feeling your way. You are. 

[00:03:52] Tim: And every woman is so different. Now, there are some things that generally do work a lot. And so I’ll kind of start with [00:04:00] those and work my way through it.

[00:04:01] Tim: But essentially, y yeah. I, I find that after, you know, like 10 dates with a woman, then I pretty much have a really good sense of what’s gonna work.

[00:04:11] Susan: But then you also expand what works for them after a while too. You help Oh, oh yeah. You find their neural pathways, right.

[00:04:17] Susan: That they’ve laid in and then you start expanding their neural pathways. So they come from so many different touch points. Definitely. Yeah. Yes, yes, yes. Yeah. And my job is to help him. He achieve the 300.

[00:04:32] Tim: Well, and it, it works for Susan too because every time I learn something new, I can bring it back for her.

[00:04:38] Tim: Yeah. Oh, where’d you learn that thing? 

[00:04:40] Susan: Yeah. We have a lot of moves that are named after people. 

[00:04:42] Tim: That’s true. 

[00:04:43] Susan: Men and women, both.

[00:04:45] Susan: Brian’s move. My favorite 

[00:04:46] Rono: Brian too. Yeah. That’s, that’s this 

[00:04:50] Susan: A JukeBot stroking that, it’s like, that hits the floor of the vagina at the same time where the peroneal sponge is.

[00:04:56] Susan: So you’re getting, you’re getting, especially if you’ve got one [00:05:00] finger on the external clitoral structure, the shaft and the glands, and then you’ve got one finger on the G-spot and a knuckle on the perineal sponge. You’re hitting all three. Erectile tissue sponges of, and then this one’s on the cervix of the genital complex 

[00:05:14] Tim: you can do 

[00:05:15] Susan: and the cervix. Look at these hands though. I do have, I have long things.

[00:05:19] Tim: My hands were, I think literally made for it, that piano, but 

[00:05:23] Susan: yes. Nice. There’s a much, 

[00:05:24] Tim: much better use of my time than playing the piano. 

[00:05:26] Susan: Definitely. You can listen to piano music while you piano.

[00:05:30] Susan: There you go. Which I love ’cause it’s so romantic.