What happens when the trailblazers of non-monogamy meet the fearless next-gen lovers? In this heartfelt and insightful finale of Polyamorous Evolutions, Roy Graff and Susan Bratton explore the powerful dynamic between “the Youngs and the Olds”—younger polyamorous folks blazing new trails, and elders offering deep support, wisdom, and grounded presence.
Whether you’re new to polyamory, seasoned in non-monogamy, or somewhere in between, this episode celebrates community, intergenerational connection, and the beauty of continuous relationship evolution.
Key Takeaways:
The evolving role of elders in polyamorous communities and how they create safer, welcoming spaces.
How younger generations are redefining love, identity, and intimacy—free of shame or traditional stigma.
Why intergenerational support mirrors ancient village models, fostering deeper connection and collective growth.
The importance of visibility, mentorship, and organizing community spaces—no matter your age or experience level.
You’re not alone—online and real-world poly communities are growing, and they want you there.
Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro: Meet Susan & Roy
1:15 – The “Youngs” are revolutionizing polyamory
2:10 – Roy’s journey into polyamory in his 40s
3:30 – How elders help create safety & visibility
5:05 – Susan on intergenerational love & modern “tribes”
6:15 – Community as the new church
6:50 – Final message: You belong here
Watch the Full Polyamorous Evolutions Series
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Website: https://www.openrelating.love
Instagram: @openrelating
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