I’m Susan Bratton, a trusted hot sex advisor to millions and I’m playing a good cop today. We’re going to talk about how to choose a vibrator. I have a whole table of vibrators for penis and vulva owners that I’m going to talk to you about. Don’t miss my companion video to this video called How To Choose A Sex Toy. Because vibrators are just one small part of the greater category of sex toys. #HowToChooseAVibrator
HOW TO CHOOSE A VIBRATOR
Today, I will speak about vibrators for the penis and vulva owners. The vulva is what we are calling the vagina these days. That’s the politically correct term. The vagina is a shaft, while the vulva is all the beautiful parts of a woman’s genitalia.
Let’s start with the woman. I want you to think about healthy, safe, high-quality toys that aren’t novelty items from China that you buy directly from the manufacturers. Ensure that they are either glass, silicone, or metal and are easy to clean. They have a good warranty, and you’re not going to hurt yourself with things like phthalates and plasticizers that are endocrine disruptors, which means they suppress your hormones and libido. They are toxic.
THE MAGIC WAND
How to choose a vibrator: You want to get good quality sex toys with great motors. One of the top things that most women would enjoy, especially women who have trouble orgasming or take a long time to have an orgasm, is the Magic Wand. The Magic Wand is the most powerful toy of all vibrators. It goes up to 6300 RPM and will blow your clitoris off if you’re not careful. You want to end your sex play with this one. Many women build their way up to tolerate the stimulation level you get with the Magic Wand.
THE WOMANIZER
The next is not a vibrator, but it’s in a popular category. This one is called the Womanizer, and it’s more like a clitoral tickler. It sucks and blows. You can put this directly on the clitoral head and shaft, and it won’t overstimulate it because it has a light, delicate button that feels like oral sex. If you can’t get enough oral sex and like direct clitoral stimulation, the Womanizer might be useful.
I feel this product is a bit too plastic, and I don’t love it. But it doesn’t matter what I love. It matters what you love. This is your sex toy.
THE CRESCENDO FROM MYSTERY VIBE
The next one up is the Masturbatory Aficionado. If you are a nerd and like Bluetooth gadgets and have a highly-programmable device, this is the Crescendo from Mystery Vibe. It’s got lovely little phalanges that surround the clitoris. You can use it straight on your clitoris as a handle. What’s great is that it has six individual motors. You can wrap it around a penis and put it inside your vagina and wrap it up to your clitoris to be in and out of you. It gets to all the tissue inside your vagina, g-spot, up your urethral sponge to your clitoral structure.
This is good for couple’s play, and it’s enjoyable because you can use the Bluetooth app. You can make each of the motors do different things and make different patterns. For example, if you’re a musician and you like to create symphonies of orgasmic patterns, this Crescendo by Mystery Vibe is an incredible toy. It’s state-of-the-art technology and has a lot of great functions. It’s got an excellent rumbly vibe and lots of feelings. You can create a playlist of different stimulation types and then let it run and take you on a ride—pretty cool technology.
B SWISH
Next, I’m going with something super-simple. This is from B Swish and has a nice hard plastic with a soft coating. What I like about the B Swish is it has ONE button. When I’m crazy out of my head having incredible orgasms, finding the controls can be difficult. I’ll go, “Where’s the button?”
I love the B Swish because this is a g-spot toy, and it feels just as good straight down on your clitoris. It goes up inside you and gives you g-spot stimulation. At the same time, you can pull it out and do clitoral stimulation. It’s super easy to use because it’s just one darn button with lots of modes. You can turn it up; you can get it to do different functions, etcetera. G-spot vibration and pressure are excellent.
So, whatever g-spot toy you decide to have, having a g-spot toy of some kind is an excellent idea for your toolbox.
VOLTA & LADY BI
Next, I have two of my favorites from Fun Factory. I used these two in my 30-day masturbation challenge. The critical thing about masturbating as much as you can is that it increases your vulva’s sensitivity and helps you get in the mood more easily. It helps you have more intense climaxes, and it makes sex with your partner more relaxing and pleasurable because you end up engorged from masturbation.
This is the Volta, and this is the Lady Bi. I like that the Volta is a clitoral stimulator. I always say that it’s like a motorboat for your clit. It has a lot of sensation. Of course, you can put this up inside you, and the clitoral stimulation is lovely.
I also like this because you can get it between you during missionary or cowgirl. It slips right in, and it gives you clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex. This is a great couple’s toy for intercourse, blended penetration, and clitoral orgasms.
I love Lady Bi and use it for masturbation. This is a g-spot stimulator. I like that this is not a dildo. It’s a filler. The vagina likes a filling feeling, but it doesn’t have to be a big filling feeling. This gets your g-spot and clitoris. Not only your clitoral glans, the tip of your clitoris, and the shaft, but it also gets the legs on the sides of your clitoris because it’s got a nice, flat spot.
It delivers plenty of rumbly vibes. If you’re looking at the Magic Wand and want that much vibe, the Lady Bi gets you super-close without the heavyweight and the fact that you could knock yourself out.
This is my billy club as the good cop here. The Lady Bi is one of my favorite orgasms, and if I had to choose a daily go-to clitoral, vaginal stimulation sex toy, the Lady Bi would be the one I would use for solo pleasuring.
THE DIGIT
I would incorporate the Volta as my love-making pleasuring. Let me show you one more. I broke this one. I’m super-sad. I have to tell my buddies at Hot Octopus; that’s my other brand of sex toys that I like.
This is called the Digit. It’s brand new, and it had a little clip that went over these two fingers so you could leave it on your hand like a ring. I wasn’t careful enough with it, and I probably threw it in my suitcase and didn’t leave it in a lovely spot, and I broke the little finger thing right off. When they find out I did that, they’ll look at their R & D to make it stronger.
Don’t hold back from purchasing this product because I broke mine. Just be more careful with yours now that you know it’s delicate. This fits on your finger. It is effortless to use. I’m always struggling with the buttons, but not on this.
You can use this with one hand, turn it on, and stick it on your finger. The up and down are here, which you can operate with your thumb. You can masturbate at the same time you turn the vibe or the functions up or down. It’s got a deep rumbly vibe, and if there was any occasion when I was traveling lightweight, which sometimes, you have to travel as light as you can, this is your travel vibe here.
I also like that it slips in between you if you want to give yourself clitoral stimulation during intercourse. This is a beautiful little toy from Hot Octopus.
Everything I’m showing you is body-safe, super-premium, and you should only invest in high-quality sex toys.
FOR MEN
Let’s move into something for the men! We have a couple of different options. I’m going first to show them quickly and then go into them individually.
This is a penis masturbator, a double-vibrating cock ring, and a vibrator for couples. He doesn’t even have to have an erection to use this, and she can use it like a Sybian.
These are two prostate toys. I have a lot of videos on prostate or p-spot pleasuring. This is a Fun Factory high-quality silicone toy for solo play and blended p-spot or prostate masturbatory orgasms. It has an awesome real high-quality vibe with multiple functions, and it transfers the stimulation.
It gives you perineal stimulation and p-spot stimulation, and if I were a dude, I would be using it.
Watch my prostate orgasm series with Dr. Ryleigh from Real Sex Talk. We talk about how you can overcome premature ejaculation and useful ways to masturbate to ensure that you don’t get prostate cancer. Riding the Wave is a masturbatory technique that’s super-healthy for you.
In that series, we go through a whole bunch of prostate toys. This one is my personal favorite. It goes right up inside you, and it has a vibrator on the outside that’s very easy to use. It has a lighter vibration.
This one has more of a buzzy vibe, whereas the Duke has a more rumbly vibe. This one’s a little smaller. It might be a good trainer if you want a vibrating prostate toy or this one (you’ve seen how big your poops are), you can get this up to your butt, no problem. Just use lube.
No matter what you do, always use great high-quality lube such as organic avocado oil or organic coconut oil. Nut oils are the best kind of lube, and use plenty of it.
MANTA
This is the Manta from Fun Factory. Great for penile stimulation. It has these beautiful little ears and is very similar to this Hot Octopus product with small ears. They both look like manta rays.
I love manta rays. I’m a scuba diver, and they look so gorgeous! You can stroke up and down your penis, or your partner can do it for you, and it has all kinds of deep rumbles and multi-functions.
It is made from high-quality German engineering and German motors. This thing will last and will feel great sliding up and down on your penis. I have not explored in-depth the fleshlight masturbators which you can put your penis in. I want you to watch out for squishy plastic with a bad smell. If it’s a novelty item is going to have toxic ingredients in it. I’m not saying the Fleshlight does because I haven’t checked it out. But I need to learn that next.
can only learn so many things for you guys so fast. I’m doing a great job; you have to admit. I like this because it’s high-quality silicone and so I know that it is a body-safe. You cannot underestimate body-safe importance because those toxic chemicals are hormone destructors, which means you will lower your testosterone, which will lower your libido.
VIBRATING COCK RING
The Vibrating Cockring for guys has a perineum vibrator and a vibrator for her, so it’s a great double vibrating sex toy from Hot Octopus, great for intercourse. This is called the Pulse Duo, this is the Atom, and this is the Pulse. Both are from Hot Octopus, as is this Digit. I like it because it has an oscillator on it. The oscillator oscillates your frenulum, which is your penis’s underside that’s a bit like your clitoris.
You can turn it up and down, or if you’re with your partner, you can flip it over, and she can ride this like a Sybian. I like it because she gets her little control, and there’s a vibrator in here for her. So, even if you can’t get hard, you can still get in missionary position and pleasure each other and enjoy being close.
Plus, it’s just a male masturbator, it’s an oscillator/male masturbator, and it’s great for solo play. Look at all these 13 vibrators. It gives you plenty of things to work with. I got a great series coming from Fun Factory in which we’re showcasing their toys. For now, these are my favorites.
SHAREVIBE
This is called ShareVibe, and this is a Fun Factory product. It is excellent for a woman and a man. This goes in the vagina. It’s like a strap-on without the harness. She then can penetrate her partner.
If you’ve ever been interested in ‘pegging,’ then this might be a great toy. It has a beautiful rumbly vibe. That is the signature of Fun Factory. It hits her clitoris, g-spot, vagina, vibrations to the tip, and she can penetrate him or her girlfriend—a nice Sharevibe from Fun Factory.
There you have it. I’m sure you’ve learned how to choose a vibrator and seen a couple of things that will tickle more than your fancy. If you would let me know what looks good to you, I’m interested to see which of these things appeal to you and why and how you might use them. I love your comments, and I’d love for you to comment below.
I drop a new video every week at a minimum, and I’d love for you to be aware of when that happens so you can see all the awesome things I create for you. I’m Susan Bratton, your trusted hot sex advisor, and I’ll see you on the other side!
