hi I'm Susan Bratton trusted hot sex
adviser to millions and in this short
video the differences between how men
like sex and how women like sex is going
to become crystal clear now if you have
any questions or comments feel free to
post them below this video because I
answer all communications and I have a
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okay men and women hmmm totally
different animals why well because we
have a different dominant sex hormone
that drives us to behave in totally
different ways men are driven by
testosterone and women by estrogen which
means what women are after is very
different than what's on a man's mind
and in his loins here's why guys do what
they do behind closed doors when a guy
grabs a woman's crotch is foreplay and
she gets mad it's not asphalt it's what
he'd want her to do to him if a guy who
just like sticks his pointy tongue right
in her mouth and she recoils it's not
asphalt it's what he wants her to do to
him men actually give women an injection
of testosterone through their saliva and
their semen the testosterone makes her
have better orgasms so it's instinctive
men are naturally drawn to do these
things it's one of our nature's many
ways to ensure our lineage now here's a
big one men like immediate genital
touching whereas women like their whole
bodies touch starting from the
extremities and slowly moving toward
their genitals holding and cuddling a
woman allows her to relax and connect so
her arousal can climb a lot of a woman's
turn-on is in her brain so greater
emotional connection
increases her orgasmic satisfaction
watch another video I have called the
bullseye touch technique and I'll give
you a lot more specifics on how to touch
a woman the way she really needs it to
get fully turned on now men are just the
opposite
the sooner his penis gets fondled the
more relaxed he'll be because he's
getting what he desires give his
genitals some attention and a guy
immediately feels grounded so he can let
go of stress and really be in his body
and present with you his lover
testosterone also drives men to give
their sexual partner incredible pleasure
he's happy when you are happy because
the guys are biologically programmed to
compete for the chance to have sex with
a woman they know they need to satisfy
her to get invited back for more sex men
need to hear a woman's moans and words
of appreciation it makes them better
lovers and on top of that they become
even better lovers when they're open to
receiving her guidance about how she
likes to be touched on any given day if
you're a woman this is really important
the best way to make a man a better
lover is to admire and appreciate him
for each and everything he does that
makes you feel good during a lovemaking
session matter oriented toward giving
incredible pleasure
it's literally their biological mandate
that's the beauty of testosterone but
here's the rub women need to be
emotionally ready in order to achieve an
orgasm if she's in feeling safe if the
sex is rushed if he isn't meeting her
other needs if she's mad at him she
won't be emotionally ready and therefore
won't be able to achieve her orgasmic
potential let's say there's something
that needs to be cleared up before sex
if her man takes the initiative to work
out any issues that might hold her back
her desire for him will increase because
he's tuned in to her needs he doesn't
expect her to just want sex because he
would he does he knows the importance of
taking care of the relationship first
and that is a total turn-on for women
for a guy verbal appreciation both with
words and moans makes for great sex
anyway you can show or tell them how
good he's making you feel or what to do
to make you feel even more pleasure will
make the sex better for him it's a
win-win men aren't selfish lovers unless
they're simply ignorant so help educate
him instead of getting mad at him and if
you're mad at him some unmet desire is
likely causing that emotion to come up
for you we women actually get bitchy
when we're horny and when our man isn't
giving us the attention and the orgasms
that we crave now men can turn
emotionally cold and aloof when they're
starved for the sex that they need
because frequency is what's most
important to men that's testosterone and
multiple studies have proven that 3
times a week is the optimal frequency
for both partners according to the
excellent book called sexy brain I've
got a link below for that book because
women are estrogen dominant and estrogen
is a cyclical hormone each time a woman
makes love she's in a different sexual
mood sometimes she's a tiger and
sometimes she's a kitty cat giving him
clues on how to pleasure her today in
this moment is just as vital as letting
him know he's doing an awesome job I
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video this sexual soulmate pact takes
into account his need to get feedback
about the changeable nature of your
womanly sexual appetites it's a bedroom
agreement that makes sex much hotter
immediately because the two of you can
finally understand each other's needs
between the sheets his testosterone
keeps him steady and focused he's a rock
her stability she is his excitement and
femininity according to dr. Dave icky
Lyndsey Burks and hormones scholar and
author of this awesome book called sexy
brain a woman has deeper orgasms with a
partner she perceives as more
considerate and dominant being manly the
attribute of testosterone makes her feel
safe and safety is vital for her
surrender to her pleasure so she can let
go and have lots of orgasms for you
women interestingly enough also prefer
men who smell good to them by being
clean and groomed that's woman's
number-one desire for men clean and
groomed as well as through the natural
pheromones that signal him is a
genetically viable mate
so birth control pills which are
synthetic hormones not only tamp down a
woman's libido they also alter her
pheromone receptors potentially skewing
the choice of mates
she makes watch my video called why
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also makes women crave the stability of
maleness from his testosterone though
she's the more empathetic sex it also
makes her the more worried sex one of
the ways women worry is about their body
image men don't see the flaws women
worry about men prefer women who are
happy with the skin they're in the
ability to get out of your head and into
your body to enjoy the sensual pleasure
you co-create during lovemaking is
essential for a man's sexual
satisfaction he doesn't want to hear
about your flaws he does not want you to
point them out he just wants you to have
amazing orgasms and thank him for doing
a great job
that's why also men are a little more
visual where women are more auditory he
wants to see your naked
badi he wants to get his hands on your
soft flesh he wants to hear your moans
of pleasure it's the woman's role to
help the man be successful in bed
instead of expecting him to know what
he's doing
expect that he needs your guidance
because of your changeable feminine
nature while she needs to hear that
she's loved and adored as well as how
sexy she is balancing your love and your
desire make a woman feel like she's both
cherished and lusted after one without
the other makes her either feel like
she's just a sex object or like she's
not very sexy try and give her both
kinds of compliments and equal measure
when you can it stabilizes her which is
your role as the man you are her rock
she needs to be verbally guided through
lovemaking in a way that is not dirty
talk but more of a stream of
appreciations yeah there are days when
she wants it dirty that's why the sexual
soulmate pact which is below here in
this link is the perfect foundation for
the hottest sex possible in any given
moment now I contact eye contact is a
vital part of great sex for both men and
women both touching the whole body and
looking in each other's eyes increases a
hormone called oxytocin oxytocin is the
thing that brings couples closer
together for more about how to generate
oxytocin together watch my video the
benefits of oxytocin for hot sex just as
women need to hear verbal appreciations
men like to have their tool worshiped
and oral pleasure is very important to
men too though penis in vagina sex is
most men's and women's favorite sexual
act oral pleasuring is one one-millionth
of a percentage slightly lower on the
pecking order suffice to say that if you
look up at him while his penis is in
your mouth and make that eye contact he
will feel very met and appreciated
sexually seeing his
Oh nerection turns him on even more so
asking him to show you his penis and
admiring it will also make many men very
happy in bed here's another one visual
stimulation in the form of wearing sexy
lingerie and high heels is a favorite
sexual turn-on for many many men women
appreciate a guy flexing his muscles or
picking her up and moving her body as a
sign of dominance overall women need to
be slowly opened and aroused we're men
more often are just ready to go so
slowing down enjoying touch kissing eye
contact sweet words together will
actually ultimately pay off and more
pleasure for both of you I hope that you
enjoyed these techniques and they gave
you some great ideas for tonight and I
want to thank you for taking the time to
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